Those were loving thoughts to my mother’s heart, knowing that she was finding such enjoyment in fingerprints on her windows, but I didn’t really understand her joy until I found myself doing something similar after my great granddaughter’s visit.

We were celebrating her second birthday and delighting in her antics. As we sat in the living room she rearranged my candles and decorative items so that she could lie down beside them on the coffee table. Then she took a decorative throw to cover herself with and pretended to sleep. We taught her how to blow candles “on” and “off” using the battery operated ones that light up and flicker without a flame.

We have a family room and our living room is used mostly when we have company, so it was a couple of days before anyone else realized that it had been left rather messy. Would you believe that someone had the nerve to straighten it up? That’s exactly how I felt when I stopped to look at it and everything was back in its proper place. I found that I had become just like my mother, or in this case, my mother-in-law.

I now understood to a greater degree the joy she found in childish fingerprints on her windows.

Proverbs 17:6a “Children’s children are the crown of old men…”

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]]> http://phyllis-sather.com/?feed=rss2&p=1559 1 http://phyllis-sather.com/?p=1548 http://phyllis-sather.com/?p=1548#comments Sun, 22 Aug 2010 21:50:42 +0000 Phyllis http://phyllis-sather.com/?p=1548 I remember long hot summer days – days that had plenty of time for pretend cooking under the back porch, which was one of my favorite shady, thus cooler, summer spots. I also enjoyed going into our grove behind the barn. There was one of my favorite things, an old horse driven plow. I would climb up into the seat and dream away the hours, thinking about the day when I would be a wife and mother.

There was jump rope, bike riding, reading, and of course, the necessary weeding the garden and doing chores, but there was also something else – time to get bored!

Just think about it for a moment. When was the last time you were actually bored? As I think about this I can remember brief moments of boredom, but they never lasted beyond checking my list, to see what was next. I don’t mean checking it for work, but actually having things on it that I enjoy and take delight in, such as a book I want to read, scrapbooking, calling a friend, time to write – not just articles for publication, but letters or e-mails to family, missionaries, and friends. Today’s technology allows us to keep in touch like never before. I find it exciting to be able to write a word of encouragement that won’t take days, weeks, or months to reach the person the Lord has brought to mind.

Lately I’ve begun thanking the Lord for all the fun things He has given me to do. Yes, there will always be the normal, everyday, responsibilities, but doing them “as unto the Lord” can even give new meaning to them.

I am so thankful to have enough interests and work to keep me from being bored – in fact; I’ve sometimes said I’ll need another lifetime to complete all the things I would like to do.

Aren’t you glad that the Christian walk doesn’t have to be boring? Aren’t you glad being a wife and mother doesn’t have to be boring?

Psalm 16:11 says:

You will show me the path of life;
In Your presence is fullness of joy;
At Your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

As a new believer, this was the first Bible verse the Lord ever made personal to me. I remember one particular time early in my walk when I was having serious doubts as to whether all I was experiencing and feeling was real. My thought was, “What if none of this is true?” Immediately this verse popped into my mind. It so described my life in Christ that it quickly dispelled all my fears. I said, even if it isn’t true, the life I’ve had with Christ is so much better than anything else I’ve had that I will follow Him forever.

How about you? Are you finding joy and pleasure in your walk with the Lord? Or has the Christian walk become dull and lifeless? If this is the case, read Psalm 16 again and ask the Lord to bring you into His presence and fill you with His joy.

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Travel and guests mean fun, but they also bring with it a sort of emotional letdown when they are over, and it can be difficult to get yourself back on track emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

Usually my first reaction is that I must be failing because I’m not “feeling” like I think I should be feeling. Then I usually try to push through by pretending everything is fine, when it actually isn’t fine at all.

Thankfully my husband made the decision for me. So I was getting ready to leave, knowing that all three of our young adult children would be here to begin the clean up and preparation for our next guest who would be arriving in less than a week – after we went on a three day retreat. Yes, yes, we’ll talk later about overbooking yourself, or leaving a margin in your plans.

Thankfully the Lord interrupted that thought to remind me that they were probably feeling as drained as I was and could use some down time to regroup too. So they all got ready in less than 20 minutes and we were on our way.

I spent some time listing to my friends share what the Lord has been saying to them, which was a lot on trusting the Lord and His faithfulness – things I really needed to hear. My young adults had lunch together and then spent time at a book store browsing and chatting.

I was surprised when we got home and everyone got right to work – without me asking them to – and I think they accomplished more than they would have if they had stayed home.

Today I read this article by Deborah Wuehler, titled “That Guilty Feeling:  Fighting the Spirit of Failure”.  She talks about homeschooling, and has some great points, but what grabbed my attention once again is that our fear of failure in whatever we are doing comes from expectations –regardless of whether they are of myself or others.

We can all come up with reasons we think we are failing. That is when we need to take our eyes off ourselves and get them on the Lord. We need to hear what He is calling us to do and where He is calling us to go – regardless of how that looks to others, or sometimes even to ourselves.

Here is the cure for feelings of failure, found in Micah 7:7-8

the LORD will be a light to me.”

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It seems like more of our friends are having visitors and visiting others than in years past. I think it is partly due to the economy, since it is far less expensive when you visit someone and don’t have hotel expenses and costly meals out, and having friends visit is always fun. Often times we do things with visitors that we have never considered doing alone, or just haven’t taken time to do.

We used to live 10 minutes from Mall of America and only went there when we had guests who wanted to see it. Of course we aren’t big shoppers, but just looking around was fun.

So far this summer we’ve done a number of things with guests that we haven’t managed to do since we moved here five years ago. We discovered that our little county museum has an amazing amount of information for such a small town. We learned things we never knew about the area. For instance, this area was one of the biggest bootleg liquor areas in the state. Our Minnesota Thirteen bootleg whiskey was famous during that era.

We’ve taken time to play games, watch old movies, look at photo albums, swim and sit on the dock – things that there just never seems to be enough time to do.

To me this has been one of the benefits of a tighter economy. When I look back I realize that my family only took one real vacation in all my growing up years, and that was to visit family in Canada. I marvel at how we have come to expect expensive vacation trips as a way of life and despair when we find we can’t do it. Or worse yet, charge it on a credit card and then pay a high percentage of interest for months until we can pay it off.

Are vacations necessary? Do we “deserve” them?

No. We can get along without vacations, and yes, we all work hard, but “deserve,” I don’t think so.

What we do need is time to relax, kick back, be refreshed, and we can do that at home as well as we could on a vacation. In fact, I’ve come home from some vacations when I felt like I needed a vacation to recover from my vacation.

One summer we decided to visit all the Minnesota Historical sites that we could get to and back from in a day. Since we did this over the space of a couple of months we were able to really enjoy them. Yes, there were days when we returned home tired, but then we could take several days to recover before planning our next outing. I’ve lived in Minnesota most of my life and had never visited most of the places we visited that summer. I’ll bet that the same is true of you and your state.

Another good idea is to send for tourism information on your state – just like you do when you go to a different state. Often you get discounts meant to lure vacationers, but residents are welcome to take advantage of them too.

If you or your spouse doesn’t get paid vacation time, another good way to regroup is to follow this command:

Exodus 20:8-11 (King James Version)

“Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work: But the seventh day is the sabbath of the LORD thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates: For in six days the LORD made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the LORD blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it.”

We tend to forget that the Lord made provision for us to be refreshed – weekly. I don’t mean that you should do nothing on Sundays, but there are probably a number of things, which if discontinued on Sundays would provide you more of a day of rest. We don’t turn on our computers until later in the afternoon – we know people who don’t use them at all on Sundays. Taking a break from our normal activities can be very refreshing. I know people who take naps on Sunday – in fact I used to be one of them.

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We lived in the same house for fourteen years and went to the same church and after moving we have lived in the same house for five years and attended the same church. My husband had the same job for fourteen years and has been at his current job for five years.

Gone are the days of a father working for his entire career at the same business. Gone are the days of families who have lived in the same house for the entire life span of their children. Gone are the days of going to the same school with the same friends from beginning to end. We no longer have a family physician that not only delivered all our children but cared for them for their entire life. The vow we take at marriage “till death do us part” no longer seems relevant to most people, having been replaced with “until I no longer love you” or some other trite phrase.

There can be some good in these changes. I’ve learned to be more flexible, I’ve learned how to develop new friendships, I’ve learned how to make an enjoyable life for myself in new situations, but I’ve also lost touch with old friends, and lost some of the sense of security that comes with having sameness in my life.

50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce, according to Jennifer Baker of the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology in Springfield, Missouri.

This means that half of the children in the United States not only faces all of the above changes, but needs to adjust to living in two different households, switching every week or month as set up by their parents. They often have to adjust to having a new mom and/or dad and new sets of siblings in both of those relationships.

The other situation children of divorce often find themselves in is growing up without a father. Fully 40% of children with divorced parents have no father who is active in their lives.

Children who don’t have the coping abilities of adults are losing even their basic sense of sameness. Is it any wonder that so many of them end up with emotional, physical, and psychological problems?

I contend that parents separating and leaving each other and their children is not normal, and that children of whatever age do not learn how to cope well, but that losing their sense of sameness leads to lifelong damage.

When I got married 25 years ago our pastors asked us to make a commitment to each other that divorce would never be an option. I’m really grateful for having been asked to do that and that both of us were willing to make that decision. I’m glad to say that even during the roughest times it never was mentioned as an option.

Would you be willing to make that commitment to your spouse today?  I think we as a society need to recognize what we are doing to future generations by removing the sameness in their lives, and be willing to take seriously our marriage vows. We need to give our children the years and years of sameness that they need to develop into adults who are healthy physically, mentally, and emotionally.

“Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?  He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.” Matthew 19:6-8 (King James Version)

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This week I have a very special guest writer – my daughter Emily.  She is oldest of our children who are still at home  and has always been homeschooled. I must say that I was often discouraged by her lack of desire to finish any writing assignments. She would sit for hours and never write  more than a couple of words. But…I’m getting ahead of myself.

Lets hear this from her point of view. Perhaps some of you will be able to share some of her insights with your reluctant writer.

“With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” (Matt. 19:26b)

“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’” (1 Cor. 12:9a)

If you’re anything like me, you can likely think of at least one thing that you’re absolutely, hopelessly, bad at – probably several things. There are a number of areas in which I’ve felt that way, and some in which I still do. But, gradually, my perspective is changing. God seems to be taking great delight in proving to me that I have very silly ideas of what is or is not possible for me – and that His plans can’t be predicted or confined by what skills I think I do or do not have.

I am an editor, and a writer. That may not sound surprising, but not so long ago I would never have expected those titles to apply to me. My interests lay elsewhere, as did my talents. When I look at my life today, it’s nothing like anything I had dreamed God might have in store for me. In fact, if I had known only a few years ago that this would be His plan, I would probably have been horrified. But now, even though I don’t yet see His plans fully, I love the work He has given me. It’s not easy, but it is far better than anything I could have come up with on my own.

I became an editor about four years ago, almost without realizing it. Ever since I could remember, I had hated writing, and everything to do with it. In all my years of school, I have never completed a writing course. Oh, it wasn’t for lack of trying. I truly did put effort and thought into it. But even the highly-recommended courses we tried… I loathed. I was so very, very bad at it. I read voraciously, adored good literature, could recognize good writing. But for myself? No. Writing was cruel and unusual punishment. When it was required, I did it, but it was a slow and painful effort.

My poor mother, who had always loved writing, wondered what had gone wrong. How could a child of hers not love writing – never mind hate it? Had she failed as a teacher? Or was there, perhaps, something seriously wrong with me?

But through a number of “coincidences” and circumstances (which are an entire story in themselves), my love of reading led me into reading stories for more than simple enjoyment. It began with my sister – she wanted me to look at her stories, and correct the mistakes in them before she showed them to anyone else. Well, it wasn’t as if I knew what I was doing, but I agreed to help her.

Much to my surprise, I found I was good at it. And, even more astonishing, I liked it. Eventually, other friends gave me their writings to read as well, and even my mother began asking me to read her articles before she sent them to magazines. Sometimes they just wanted a general opinion, sometimes they wanted me to correct the mistakes or make suggestions.

The more I edited, the more I enjoyed it, and the more I wanted to learn the rules and art of language so that I could improve. I sought out books, reading and learning more through experience, and by the time I put a title to it and began working professionally, I had actually been an editor for some time.

At the time I had no idea where I was going, but in hindsight God’s direction has been almost laughably clear, gently turning me away from my own dreams, and replacing them with something even better. Out of something I had always hated and been entirely inept at, God has given me work that I love, and opened countless doors for ministry, giving me the ability to help and encourage my family, my pastor, missionaries, and many other brothers and sisters in Christ. And, as far as a “productive” career is concerned – I’ve never yet had to apply for a job. Again and again, He’s brought opportunities right to me, without any initiation on my part.

Despite all of that, some things didn’t change. Writing…. Ah, there was an area where I was truly beyond hope. I might like editing, but writing was still a different matter entirely. I would never be a writer. It surprised some people – writing and editing were supposed to go hand-in-hand, weren’t they? But I still hated it.

And then, completely by accident, I started writing a book.

It started out as simply a short article for an online writing community. As an editor, certain common writing mistakes really bother me, so I wrote an article on the proper and improper usage of exclamation marks in fiction. It was actually quite fun. One article turned into two, and then three. Not only were they well-received, but when I shared them with friends and family the universal response was that they were helpful – and that they should be expanded into a book.

Honestly, I was stunned, and kind of scared. I wasn’t a writer! I couldn’t write a book! But enough people had said the same thing that I started to wonder if God might be trying to tell me something. It seemed strange – how could writing advice about fiction be a way to serve God? It was perfectly legitimate and reasonable as something a person might want to do, but could it really be something He wanted me to do? But in the end, I surrendered.

So now, I am not only writing a book, but I’m writing a book on writing. I don’t have any idea what I’m doing, and I still have plenty of doubts. But I am confident that it was God who started me down this road, and He’s the one who will give me the abilities I need to walk it. It is certainly pride and folly to trust in our own abilities, but I’m learning that it is equally so to refuse to trust in His ability to enable us to do the tasks He has for us. His strength is made perfect in our weakness, and I truly think He delights at times in giving us tasks we feel completely unfit for, so that through us His greatness can shine all the more.

Sometimes, even though in our minds we know differently, it can feel like we have to be doing something really “spiritual” in order to serve God. The truth is, God calls us to serve Him wherever we are, and anything we do can be for His glory.

In the parable of the talents (Matthew 25:14-30), even the servant with only one talent was expected to do something with it, and the Master was very displeased when he buried it. It’s all too easy to listen to the voices of doubt and insecurity: “I can’t do that. I’ve got no talent for this. This is impossible.” This talent may feel like a very little, weak, and useless one, but who knows?

I do know that I’ve got to be a whole lot more careful about what I decide I’m hopeless at, because I never know when it might wind up being in the center of God’s plans for me. When she first asked if I would be interested in being involved with Regenerated Magazine, I told Veronika, the head of our editing department, that I would like to edit, but that I doubted I’d ever write anything for it. After all, I am most definitely not a writer. I didn’t even intend to write this article, but I think it’s quite obvious what God thought of that idea.

Where are you hopeless? Is there something that God’s been bringing into your path, but you’ve been hesitating because you don’t think you’re up for the task? When we are weak, He is strong: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)

It might not be easy, but if it’s something God wants for us, we can do it. And you never know: you just might be surprised when God gives you “the desires of your heart,” (Psalm 37:4) and you find it’s something you once thought you hated.

You can talk with Emily about your editing or writing needs at: Kind Corrections Editing Service striderfcr@yahoo.com

Finding Joy in the Journey,

Before we leave I wanted to take just a moment to let you know about this sale at The Old Schoolhouse.

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Have a wonderful weekend.

Phyllis

Many of us have chosen to be a one income family so that we can homeschool our children. This can often mean tight budgets without money for those extras.

The Old Schoolhouse is offering some free e-books that might be just what you need.

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]]> http://phyllis-sather.com/?feed=rss2&p=1457 0 http://phyllis-sather.com/?p=1446 http://phyllis-sather.com/?p=1446#comments Thu, 17 Jun 2010 20:21:50 +0000 Phyllis http://phyllis-sather.com/?p=1446 Our son Eric was diagnosed with Leukemia in July of 1991 whenhe was 16 months old. That was the year our oldest daughter was to start school in the fall.

For years we had been praying about and planning on homeschooling our children. We knew several families with children older than ours who were homeschooling and we liked what we saw happening in them. We had waited two years to purchase our home because we wanted something in the same neighborhood where several families from our church lived. Most of them homeshooled and we wanted to be close so we could be supported in our efforts, since we were new to this adventure.

Now here we were with a critically ill baby. The thought of trying to homeschool seemed more than just a little overwhelming at that point. But we really felt that it was something the Lord was calling our family to do, so we prayerfully sought him during that summer.

In the end, Eric having leukemia became the deciding factor. We knew he would be healthier (if you can talk about being healthy while you have Leukemia) during his treatment if his sister wasn’t bringing home a lot of childhood illnesses from her classmates. So the decision was made: We would homeschool!

Now we just needed to figure out how to do it. Our days were very unpredictable. The world of Leukemia really ran our schedule. In addition to our regular weekly and sometimes bi-weekly visits to the clinic there were many different reasons that would prompt an unexpected trip to the clinic or hospital. If Eric had a temperature over 102 degrees, it was an automatic trip to the clinic. If he had an allergic reaction to one of the drugs, which seemed to happen on a regular basis, off we went. One time he woke up from a nap and his catheter had somehow fallen out. That time it was a hospital stay and unplanned surgery to replace the catheter.

In addition to that, our children were only five, three and one.

We needed a plan. We really wanted school to be fun and interesting. We were excited to be teaching Emily, but having mom all tense and nervous about what wasn’t happening didn’t sound like much fun to any of us. And that’s about where I was – tense and nervous because I didn’t see a way to make this work. I had visions of just getting started and being interrupted to take Eric to the doctor. That in addition to the normal interruptions of a one year old and a three year old really made it look impossible.

But God…

As we sought God in this I believe He revealed His plan to us. It must have been His plan because it worked so well.

Some of the verses He used to guide us were:

1 Corinthians 1:25 Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men.

Psalm 1:6 For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous:

Psalm 18:32 It is God that girdeth me with strength, and maketh my way perfect.

Psalm 25:9 The meek will he guide in judgment: and the meek will he teach his way.

Psalm 25:12 What man is he that feareth the LORD? Him shall he teach in the way that he shall choose.

It was a simple plan. Isn’t that so like God? I quit trying to fit in school at home. I packed a bag with all the things I would need to teach Emily. As we sat in waiting rooms, emergency room, and hospital rooms, we “did school”.  Rebekah and Eric listened in as I read to Emily. They watched as she learned to read and watched her write in her new workbooks. Soon Rebekah wanted to know when she could have her own workbooks. It became something everyone looked forward to whenever a doctor’s visit was necessary. One of the girls would always grab the “special” bag as we headed out the door.

Not only did it work – and work well – but it was such good use of what otherwise would have been a lot of down time, time spent just waiting! I would have been looking for ways to entertain bored children, but instead they all looked forward to watching Emily do school.

Now I can see that from God’s perspective everything was in order and working as planned. Sometimes we have to step around a situation that we see as a problem and get God’s perspective. What is His plan in all of this? How does He see us in this situation?

This taught us a valuable lesson that we used often during our 18 years of homeschooling. When things get tough or difficult or even seem impossible – we don’t look for a way out. Instead, we ask the Lord to help us get His view – His perspective. He’s the best consultant available – and He’s always ready and willing to help.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

Homeschooling can be especially challenging with a chronically ill child in the family, but if the Lord is calling you to do it He will also provide a way.

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This cabin has been a haven for our family and remains one of our favorite places to kick back, relax, and reconnect as a family.

As parents of three young children we hoped for a place that we could return to year after year and make memories that would last a lifetime. This cabin has been all of that and more. We have so many “traditions” that we can no longer do them all in one trip so we are forced to pick and choose. Plus we continue to add to our list. Sometimes I think that everything we do and enjoy becomes a tradition.

And the memories – we talk for hours about all the things we have done here and the family and friends who have spent hours or days with us here.

Please click the following link and take a walk down memory lane with me by enjoying this slide show and article.

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Phyllis

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